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My Story with a Critique of Fundamentalist Extremism and a Defense of my Positions

The following is the text of a letter I sent to some of my college friends, which I had been keeping up with. This letter tells much of my story. I present it here with just a few minor edits.Feel free to jump to “My Critique of Fundamentalism and Defense of My Positions“, which is the last half of this lengthy letter.

My Story

September 19, 2005

Dear ——-,

Greetings! I apologize for not having written in quite a while. Many things have changed in my life since we last talked, leaving me somewhat at a loss for where to begin and how to explain these things to my friends. I apologize for the length of this letter, but I want to really bare my soul to you, and let you understand my mind in this matter.

Last I contacted you, I was still in the San Francisco area attending Bethel Baptist Church pastored by Kent Brandenburg. Carolyn was teaching first grade part-time for their academy, and I was taking an occasional class offered by the church at a Master’s equivalent level. I was laid off, though, in April 2004, due to my company’s financial woes. I spent several months in a fruitless search for work. We had already decided that Carolyn would not teach the next year to enable her to be a full-time homemaker. Thru my brother’s connections, I applied for a job in the Minneapolis area. There was a good church we had heard of from people at Bethel in the area, too. After praying and seeking godly counsel, we decided that God would have us move to Minneapolis and take the job. We arrived in July 2004. But we did not yet, at that point, anticipate the dramatic and comprehensive changes God was leading us to make.

We found an apartment and became actively involved as members of —— Baptist Church of ——-, MN. By this time, we had learned that God was going to bless us with another daughter, and so we began to eagerly await her birth (Megan Faith was born January 20, 2005—we praise God for two healthy daughters, we also are expecting our 3rd child on or around Feb. 5, 2006-Ps. 127:5a). Also, my parents had come home on furlough, and we enjoyed much fellowship and time with them, during their visits to Minneapolis made more frequent due to my mom’s mother’s deteriorating health (she was in hospitals in either Duluth or St Paul, MN from August 2004 thru January 2005 when she went to be with the Lord). We also enjoyed a greater fellowship and connection with my brother and his wife (and daughter—they now have a son, too) as they were only a 6½-hour drive from us in Martin, ND where he has been pastoring since May 2004.

However, during this time God was giving me, more and more, of a feeling of distaste and frustration over our church. The feeling was practically tangible. I felt unfed, and dissatisfied. While there was a shortage of Biblical teaching and exegesis centering on Christ, there was an overabundance of preaching and teaching on the things fundamentalists separate over—issues and standards. Even those messages that did focus on Christ were very shallow. I was also irritated by the poor scholarship that was presented (and accepted) as careful and scholarly Biblical teaching. More disheartening, though, was the feeling we both had that week after week, people came to church, went thru the rituals of church, enjoyed time with friends, and left without really experiencing any sort of passion for Christ. There was passion for standards, but no spiritual vibrancy and life. The pastor strangely did not talk about his messages or really about anything spiritual at all, before or after the services. The services were extremely formal and traditional, and it was very hard to worship in a meaningful and personal way. The impression we got was that everyone was completely satisfied with where they were spiritually and corporately as a church. We sensed no holy unrest of spirit, no burning desire for God, just a complacent traditional mindset, that this is what church/religion is and nothing more. We were, to be fair, impressed by a genuine testimony of witnessing for Christ that characterized many of the members. We also do not doubt that they sincerely love Christ. Yet, the church conveyed the false idea that the sum total of spirituality is consistent witnessing and adherence to standards. Worship, love, persevering faith in God and His promises, desire for God—these are at the heart of spirituality, not external acts which we can accomplish in our flesh. Equally alarming was the low view of salvation. It seemed to be understood as merely a decision. They did not accept what is termed as quick prayer-ism, yet the predominant view was that salvation was received thru a quick prayer. Children were being pressured to “get saved” by accepting Jesus into their heart. And anyone claiming to have given his heart to Christ was accepted unreservedly as a genuine believer. We were genuinely concerned for the spiritual wellbeing of our children. [disclaimer: Please note how I stressed this was what we "felt" and the "impression" we got. We do know many of the people at that church were sincerely loving God and living lives for Him, nevertheless, the "impression" we were getting of the church as a whole was as stated above. I do believe that this may be due to the fact of what God was doing in our lives more so than an indication as to the actual state of the majority of the people in that church.]

I believe God used this experience to finally push us over the edge and make some decisions that He had been leading us to for quite some time. We resigned our membership from that church and began searching for a new church. But before I talk about that, I think I should explain a bit of God’s working in our lives bringing us to this point.

Looking back, I can see God’s hand in this all along the way. He gave me a burning desire to know the truth, since I was a child. He equipped me with a critical-thinking, sharp mind. In college, I would not have been considered to be someone who just floated along with the crowd and accepted anything anyone taught me; no, I wanted to know and embrace the truth. My days at Fairhaven were when I really commenced my quest for holding the right Biblical positions on issues and standards of conduct. I evaluated everything and had a serious approach to life, I think. Gradually, my convictions became more and more shaped by my growing understanding of Scripture. God led me to Carolyn and then led us to Bethel and Pastors Kent Brandenburg and Dave Sutton. There we both were challenged to be more thoroughly Biblical in everything we did. We saw how that church had changed its practice in significant ways fairly frequently, to align itself closer with Scripture. Tradition and peer-pressure were certainly backseat to Biblical exegesis and teaching. My understanding of Scripture grew, particularly in respect to what salvation is. For some reason, throughout my college experience I had never heard 1 Jn. 2:19 taught on in this regard before. The verse powerfully cuts to the heart of the issue of salvation and eternal security. It teaches that those who seem to fall away never were genuinely saved. Conversely, those who are saved will never ultimately fall away. Pastor Brandenburg continually preached about how saved people characteristically live. He held out Biblical expectations of genuine believers, and did not cavalierly assume that all who profess salvation possess it. He also completely rejected the popular assumption that there can be perpetually carnal Christians. Salvation is something supernatural and will inevitably result in a changed life.

During this time my convictions seemed to be becoming more cemented, and more directly founded on Scripture. Yet I still had a problem—my brother. My brother Dave went to Northland Baptist Bible College, and early on in his college years, he changed dramatically. His standards became much less than they had been (in my eyes), yes. But the real startling change was a positive one. He became much more spiritual than I had ever known him to be. He genuinely loved Christ and constantly talked about Him and Scriptural things so much that I hardly recognized him. God changed him in a dramatic way—a good way. He attributed much of the change to reading part of John Piper’s book Desiring God: Meditations of a Christian Hedonist. Since we were both very busy with college and our ministries, we did not get together that often. When we did, though, we inevitably ended up arguing with one another for hours on end in at least one debate session. We discussed all the issues I thought were important—local church only theology, personal separation issues (pants on women and music), Calvinism, and of course, KJV-onlyism. I would go into the debate each time more and more prepared (I thought) to face him with good, clear, Scriptural arguments for these issues. Yet I would be frustrated as my arguments fell on seemingly deaf ears. The feeling I got, however, was not that he was directly despising God’s word. Rather, I felt that my arguments were being found to be baseless. I felt helpless. While I was always so confident in talking with others, who agreed with me, about these issues, I felt inept and unable to answer many of his arguments. This happened time and time again in our discussions.

While I was at Bethel Baptist, I felt like my convictions were given more Scriptural support because I was around people who used clear Biblical exegesis to support their positions. Still though, I did not seem to gain ground against Dave’s arguments. However, as a result of my time at Bethel and my acceptance of their more Biblically precise teaching on salvation, Dave and I started to enjoy greater fellowship and unity. He wholeheartedly agreed with my beliefs regarding salvation. We had several good conversations about the gospel, putting our differences aside. Actually, Dave wanted to have real communion with me all along. He stressed that the Bible presses for unity and fellowship in the gospel (Phil. 1:5). He was willing to reach out to me despite the areas in which we disagreed. However, for my part, I was uncomfortable with that, because in some way my positions were so much a part of me that I could not genuinely unite with others who did not hold to some of the major positions at least.

In the midst of this struggle for truth and precision in doctrine, God brought a book to my attention (Ekklesia: To the Roots of Biblical Church Life edited by Steve Atkerson and published by the New Testament Reformation Foundation), which I read in either the fall or winter of 2003. While I did not necessarily accept all of the views the book argues for (it stresses the need to let the Bible, rather than tradition, shape our church polity, arguing for house churches, multiple elders, and observing the Lord’s Supper as a meal rather than a mini-cup and wafer among other things), the book had the effect of shattering many preconceived notions and widening my vision. Many things I had been encouraged to assume and take for granted to be Biblical, now became things I felt compelled to evaluate under the light of Scripture. I began to see how much of what I believed and practiced was really tradition and not revealed truth. This changed my perspective quite a bit, and made me willing to see things from other points of view. Moreover, I was made aware that my church and my sphere of fellowship were not the only ones with a deep commitment to Scripture and a desire to conform to it rather than tradition.

The debate with my brother gradually centered on a couple key issues. Early on, we were concerned with the KJV-only debate. He gave me articles by William Combs, a professor at Detroit Baptist Theological Seminary (a fundamentalist institution similar to Northland in their stands {i.e., not KJV-only and less separatistic than most independent Baptists}), and Daniel Wallace, a professor at Dallas Theological Seminary, and recommended D.A. Carson’s book The Bible Version Debate: A Plea for Realism. I recommended books by D.A. Waite at first (when I was only beginning my research into the issue, since then I would not recommend his books to anyone, as they contain factual errors, faulty reasoning, and naïve scholarship) and then by E.F. Hills. At Bethel Baptist I was privileged to be able to interact with some of the sharpest KJV-only proponents available. As you know, Bethel published the book Thou Shalt Keep Them edited by Pastor Brandenburg. Pastor Sutton and also Tom Ross [a mutual friend] were very involved in that book, and they were all in conversation with Dr. Thomas Strouse (also a contributor to that book, and is the Dean of Emmanuel Baptist Theological Seminary in Newington, CT) as well. (I did give Dave a copy.) From my own exhaustive research into the issue, I had many nagging questions about the issue. Yet, I was never able to find satisfactory answers and I felt like some of my concerns were not even really acknowledged. This severely limited my ability to convince my brother of what I believed to be was the right position.

Our debate then shifted to the topic of Calvinism. Dave was more passionate about this issue, since to him a denial of Calvinism was a root cause of the widespread errors regarding the nature of salvation. Dave’s wedding, which I attended, was themed around God’s sovereignty. Afterward, he and his wife began attending John Piper’s church in Minneapolis—Bethlehem Baptist Church. He sent me a booklet on the five points of Calvinism written by Piper and the elders of his church. Our church, Bethel, had been dealing with the issue around the same time. They kicked out a member primarily for his acceptance of Calvinism (which had led him to leave and attend a Calvinistic Baptist church in the area). I was not pleased with the fact that the church did not just let him leave, but decided to kick him out over this “false” doctrine. It troubled me that someone coming to a different position on this one issue would bring on himself such negative consequences. Still, though, I remained convinced that Calvinism was not Scriptural. I had read David Hunt’s book What Love is This? —a critique of Calvinism. Yet when I read Piper’s booklet, I was amazed at how Biblically based it was. I took issue with only a few points of what that booklet had to say. Later, I was directed (by Pastor Brandenburg, no less) to Dr. David Doran’s critique of Hunt’s book. (Doran is the pastor of Inter City Baptist Church in Allen Park, MI and president of Detroit Baptist Theological Seminary.) He does not so much debunk Hunt’s thesis as he shows Hunt’s ignorance and bad writing (one could call it outright deception!). Several of Hunt’s quotes use ellipses in an extremely suspect way (like claiming Spurgeon called limited atonement, heresy, whereas the material left out of the quote by the ellipsis is a direct affirmation of the doctrine of limited atonement). {Incidentally, Tom Ross pointed out to me that even Vance, a critic of Calvinism himself, critiques Hunt’s errors and ineptness.} Dave had previously given me Willing to Believe by R.C. Sproul. I purposed to begin reading this only after I had read Hunt’s book.

As I began working my way thru Sproul’s book, I continually encountered challenging arguments for Calvinism. I still did not agree with Calvinism as a whole, but found myself less hostile to it and willing to agree with some of its points (or at least the spirit of them). When I left Bethel Baptist to go to MN, I was still not ready to accept Calvinism, and was working out a better understanding of Bethel’s position which is very much more Calvinistic than Arminian, while not embracing Calvinism (they believe both faith and repentance are gifts of God but that thru the preached Word of God sinners do have the ability to respond to God’s call after which they are given the gifts of faith and repentance).

When we came to MN and sat under the teaching of Pastor ——, this issue and many others were constantly brought to mind. What to me were complex issues were treated with little care as to accuracy or scholarship. Opposing views were misrepresented as often as they were demonized. While I sat stunned under the preaching, which I found largely shallow, illogical and full of poor hermeneutics, I was reminded of many similar sermons I heard in chapel at Fairhaven. [disclaimer: I am describing my perceptions. I also heard several good sermons and evidence of obvious scholarship as well from the above pastor. At the time, however, I was really "jolted" by some of what I was hearing.] As I was evaluating the teaching and preaching of that church, I found myself evaluating much of the independent Baptist movement I was a part of. With closer contact and more conversations with my brother, and with more research and contemplation, I embraced Calvinism, came to reject a strict KJV-only position, and began thinking thru other issues as well. I was also reading more and more of John Piper’s works. He continually impressed me with the substance and soul of what he had to say, as well as how Biblically based his assertions were. It became very apparent to me that the passion he wrote of was largely missing in my life and in the lives of many I knew. I came to connect much of the blame for this with what fundamentalism did and did not emphasize. External conformity to standards and leader-worship are advanced by the movement. Whereas there may be much preaching on having a heart for Christ, a guilt-driven, man-pleasing process is built into the heart of fundamentalism that invites the all-too-common reality of cold-hearted people going thru the motions of church-ianity, secure and smug in the approval their external performance has given them. As I read Piper and other non-independent Baptists, I found a sincere desire to be Biblical and a genuine passion for Christ that exist outside our camp. Our movement conveys the impression that we are the only true followers of Christ—everyone who is not a fundamental independent Baptist is either misled or outright sinful (in a somehow worse way than all of us are sinful). I found, however, that such opinions are pure fiction. Slowly, God was bringing what I had been thinking on and searching out for two or three (or more) years together into a sharper and sharper focus. I found myself staring at the very real possibility of simply walking away from this movement, into something else which would be more Biblically based.

This brings me back to early January 2005. We (Carolyn was agreeing with my observations and did some reading and studying on her own with many issues we faced—she is wholeheartedly behind me in the decisions we have made each step of the way…) felt that God wanted us to leave ——— Baptist Church and go elsewhere, but we still did not know where. By this time I was a Calvinist, and while I still favored the TR, I believed that both it and the KJV (as well as the Hebrew Masoretic Text) had errors {an admission that led me to be more willing to review the evidence in favor of the Majority Text or the Critical Text as opposed the TR}. With such large changes in my thinking made, I still was not ready to join Piper’s church. I thought that we might end up joining Fourth Baptist Church in Plymouth, MN (a suburb of Minneapolis) pastored by Douglas MacLauglin (former president of Northland Baptist Bible College). This church is fundamental and independent Baptist, yet it does not prefer that women wear pants and uses the NKJV. It has conservative music but embraces Calvinism (although many of its seminary professors—Central Baptist Theological Seminary—are 4-point rather than 5-point Calvinists). We attended several times, but I still did not feel at peace about the church. We also visited Bethlehem Baptist (Piper’s church). We prayed about and discussed our decision and believe God has clearly directed us in this matter. We have been attending Bethlehem Baptist now since February and plan on joining the church at their next Covenant Affirmation Sunday.

I did talk with my parents about our choice and they were behind me. They have not agreed with much of what they see as extreme views among fundamental, independent Baptists. Dad has always lamented the tendency of independent Baptists to be busy shooting one another rather than shooting the devil. Dad actually recommended that we attend John Piper’s church, when he heard what I felt about many of these things. That surprised me, because at first, Dad and Mom had been leery of Dave’s attending there. Yet, they came to really appreciate Piper’s messages and books. [disclaimer: My parents still are solid fundamentalists. They have tried to focus on the important issues rather than getting bogged down on debates over smaller things. They use only the KJV in their ministry, and would probably not join our church. The advice they gave was given in light of decisions I had already made. And they do not agree with every thing John Piper holds to.]

Let me make a few things absolutely clear. First, this was not an easy decision to come to. There has never been a harder decision for either of us to make. I basically had to write off my whole life as being part of a movement I believe to be seriously flawed. We had to look at our friends and realize that most if not all of them will simply write us off as liberal compromisers and cease any fellowship with us. We would completely understand, since we have been there ourselves before—ready to separate from people at the drop of a hat. From our perspective now, we long to have continued fellowship with our friends—fellowship based on the glorious gospel of Christ. We can charitably agree to disagree on what are minor issues in light of the hugely unifying truths we hold in common—the authority of and inerrancy of the Bible, the substitutionary atonement of Christ, justification by grace thru faith alone…. I had to come to grips with the fact that if we had come to this decision while still members at Bethel Baptist in CA we would no doubt have been voted out of the church! I had to accept that my education is not adequate for me now. I am not confident that it has adequately prepared me for ministry, as most of it was focused on methods of ministry I largely disagree with now, while the rest of it was largely shallow on Biblical exegesis and scholarship, leaving me without enough knowledge of doctrine to be able to chart the troubled waters that face evangelicalism as a whole now. I will have to look at going to a seminary for 3 years or more, probably, before I feel competent to enter the ministry at the level I believe God ultimately wants me to. We had to look ahead to feeling very uncomfortable at whatever church we would join, and having to find all new friends. We have no family in Minneapolis, so we have really felt isolated the past six months. It has not been easy. It would have been much, much easier to just go with the flow. But, at the end of the day, we want to be a part of a church that is consumed with knowing Christ and desiring God and His glory rather than one consumed with keeping a preconceived set of standards, personal and ecclesiastical, that will somehow make us more faithful and thus more valuable to God. I want my children encouraged to love Christ and know Him personally, rather than have them pressed to conform by praying a prayer and keeping external standards in order to be/look holy.

Second, I want to report that we have seen this drastic change bring about much good already. We have been challenged spiritually like never before thru the Christ-saturated and Biblically substantive preaching. We both appreciate our salvation and God’s grace so much more than we did before. The atmosphere of the service facilitates a deeply personal and serious worship. The music, we have both found, is incredibly deep and very worshipful—not pervasively secular and detracting from the message as we were brainwashed before to pre-assume. Our church thinks through every aspect of its worship, preaching, and ministry and tries to base everything on Scripture. The nursery programs have been very helpful in directing our children toward God at an early age. We have benefited by many seminars and teaching that our church offers. We have also seen how Christ-oriented and real, so many of the people we know at church are. We have joined a small group as part of our church’s Biblical response to Heb. 3:12-14 and 10:24-25, and been greatly encouraged by the personal exhortation and fellowship in a small, more intimate setting. I have joined a men’s group dedicated to accountability regarding sexual purity. This has greatly helped me in my struggle to remain pure from impure thoughts in this impure world. In short, we are growing in the Lord and are very excited that he has brought us to this church. We are probably more spiritually focused than we were before, and we are certainly growing. God has graciously helped us adjust to the changes, bringing us positive and lasting spiritual blessings.

Now, I know you are coming up with many “Biblical” objections, and you are wondering how I could so easily and flippantly, it seems, cast off so many distinctive standards of independent fundamental Baptists. I cannot possibly see every thought you have right now and answer every argument that comes up in your mind. I do want to give a general defense, though, of some of my new positions. I will try to be brief. Above all, I want to be charitable. I do see many things that are good with the movement Carolyn and I grew up in. I also see many people that are good and sincerely godly people who are committed to this movement. We believe that there are some elements of mind control involved in the movement as a whole. We also understand that God leads people in different ways and that he has made us all human enough that it is impossible that everyone will be able to agree in every point. We understand that there are many illogical thought structures used by various groups to support a host of opposing claims, and we realize that our fallen intellects are all flawed and thus we may be wrong and you may be right in some areas. We also know how hard it was for us to see some of these things, and how hard we kicked against the pricks in some of these areas ourselves. In fact, these last few sentences are a key argument I have concerning so many of these distinctive stands. I believe there should be room for disagreement in many of these areas just because there is so much ambiguity and problems with two people and groups seeing exactly eye-to-eye when debating these issues. I believe there are certain truths that are more clearly revealed in Scripture than others. And while no truth should be treated lightly, we still have a greater obligation to separate over, or stand for those truths that are more clearly revealed in Scripture (like the deity of Christ, inerrancy, the substitutionary atonement of Christ, etc.).

I want to briefly address the following issues: KJV-onlyism, local church ecclesiology, music, dress standards, church government, separation, Calvinism, Covenant Theology, Post-tribulational rapture. I will also try to address some general concerns I have with fundamentalism as a movement. I will not use this exact order in addressing these issues. In fact, I am going to reproduce most of a letter I wrote to Pastor —– explaining why we left their church, yet I will be making some additions. (The first paragraph that follows here is introductory and somewhat repetitious to use here, but I want you to be able to see clearly what I see that makes me so leery of fundamentalism as a whole) There might be some things I am forgetting, but you are more than welcome to correspond with me and open a debate on these or any topics.

My Critique of Fundamentalism

Often in fundamentalism, doctrine and Biblical exegesis are downplayed, ignored, or avoided. Topical or shallow messages prevail. Church members learn their do’s & don’ts but not what the Bible actually says (the arguments Biblical authors use, the context of favorite proof texts, or Bible doctrines in general). While fundamentalists claim to be standing on the Bible alone, rare is the church that actually opens itself up to Biblical scrutiny. For instance, it is an assumed thing that the Bible will not actually be shown to teach Calvinism, post-tribulational rapture, or covenant theology. So anyone who would espouse one of these positions or another similar position is immediately identified as a heretic and the church never actually carefully reviews what the Bible says on the matter.

Fundamentalists assume that their practices, standards, and positions are Biblical to the point of reading into the Bible what is not there to support their traditions and viewpoints. In the vacuum of solid Biblical exegesis, ignorance and faulty reasoning/logic prevail. In short, while fundamentalists claim to be the stalwart defenders of true doctrine, they are in fact the defenders of old-fashioned (actually late 1800’s early 1900’s) tradition. (For example, while today most fundamentalists would decry any church not having Sunday School, or a Sunday Evening service, or not having an altar call, prior to the 1850’s no church had any of the above. SS and Sunday Evening services were evangelistic in nature and origin, and the altar call was a human method originally designed to help out the Holy Spirit in bringing awakened sinners to the point of conversion/repentance {it was popularized by the rank Arminian Charles Finney, who explicitly denied substitutionary atonement and exalted human efforts in the work of revival—actually judging the validity of methods [the altar call among them] by the success they brought [the end justifies the means—sounds like contemporary leaders like Rick Warren and Bill Hybels]}.

Additionally, fundamentalists universally decry the use of worldly music to attract the world to services where they can be reached. However, the music fundamentalists sing, almost to the exclusion of music from any other period of church history—music from the mid to late 1800’s thru the early 1900’s was created in the same way. It was music that intentionally moved away from a more complex harmony/melody to something the average unchurched person would like. Soloists sang the verses and the congregation joined in for the catchy {at that time} chorus. Evangelists D.L. Moody, R.A. Torrey, and Billy Sunday attributed much of the success of their large-scale revival campaigns to the music written and sung by their various song leaders: Ira Sankey, Phillip B. Bliss, Charlie Alexander, and Homer Rodheaver. The position of song leader and the prominence of the piano were born during this era. The music written in this era also deliberately downplayed doctrine and encouraged personal experience—thus an emphasis on Jesus as a friend rather than Lord and Judge. This resulted in many flocking to revival services and many denominations turning their backs to the older hymns richer in doctrine and substance. {See Confronting Contemporary Music by H.T. Spence of Foundations Bible College published by Foundations Press for documentation of the part about music})

My Defense of my Positions

(Moving on to specific issues now…) While not every question concerning the sovereignty of God & the free will of man can be answered by any system completely, Calvinism best accounts for the fact that repentance (2 Tim. 2:25, Acts 11:18, and Acts 5:31) faith (Acts 3:16, 1 Pet. 1:21, Phil. 1:29, and Rom. 12:3 {also Acts 15:8-9 and 18:27}) and conversion in general (Jn. 6:64-65 explaining v. 44, Acts 16:14, Jm. 1:18, Eph. 2d:8, and Jn. 1:13) are gifts from God. Eph. 1:19 clearly states that we believe according to the working of God’s power (not our own). 2 Thess. 1:3 teaches we should thank God for the faith of believers, since by implication it proceeds from Him. Phil. 1:6 states that God started a work in us—He did not pick up after we contributed self-wrought faith. No, He started it and He will bring it to completion. How else can you think of a gift other than as given freely and wholly undeserved? God does not look for who is responsive to him, before giving them faith, because without faith it is impossible to please Him at all (Heb. 11:6, see also Rom. 8:7-8). In fact 1 Jn. 5:1 clearly says literally “everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ has been born of God. (The Greek tense could not be clearer in the original—the birth happened before the belief, since the text seems to clearly teach that the belief is a proof/result that birth happened. I challenge you to provide any text that more clearly speaks to the specific relation of regeneration and faith other than maybe Jn. 1:12 with vs. 13 or James 1:18. {Keep in mind regeneration is not salvation or justification, both of which only happen to those who have already believed. Regeneration is a heart change performed by God the Spirit. I contend the Bible clearly reveals that regeneration precedes faith, which itself precedes justification and salvation.})

1 Cor. 1:23-24 clearly teaches that there is a call that is not the universal call of the gospel. The gospel is preached to all and the Greeks count it as foolishness, while the Jews count it as a stumbling block, but those who are the called (from both Jews and Greeks) see it as the power of God to salvation. So the general call of the gospel is only heeded by those who are called by a different, sovereign call. This is why Rom. 8:30 says that all who are called (and only the called) are justified. Thus those who are not justified were not called. This fits with Jn. 6:44. Jn. 10:15, Eph. 5:25, and 1 Tim. 4:10 teach that Jesus died for the elect in a different way than he died for all men. This is why Jesus could teach in Jn. 10:26 that the reason people do not believe is because they are not elect (of Jesus’ sheep) instead of teaching what fundamentalists primarily believe, that people are not elect because they do not believe (cf. Acts 13:48 and Jn. 8:47). All who are unbelievers do not seek God and are blinded by Satan. They need God to shine the “light of the gospel of the glory of Christ” in their hearts just like He commanded light to shine out of darkness on Day 1 of Creation (see 2 Cor. 4:3-6—also I challenge you to access John Piper’s sermon on 2 Cor. 4:1-7 preached May 1 2005 accessible in print or audio for free here. I challenge you also to explore Biblical arguments for Calvinism more by accessing for free John Piper’s booklet on the 5 points of Calvinism. Also be sure to read Romans 9 and notice how Paul anticipates the very arguments that arise from our human understanding against the reality of God’s total sovereignty (vs. 14 and 19). Also it should be apparent that if God is dealing with an individual in Pharaoh the context and individuals are the ones bringing up the questions, that Esau and Israel are to be understand as individuals (see vs. 11 and 24 for extra support of the obviously clear teaching of this passage). It is amazing to what hermeneutical lengths people go to force Romans 9 not to teach what anyone reading it is shocked to see—that God has sovereignty over individual’s destinies. See also Romans 11.

I also am leaning toward a post-tribulational rapture position. I do not believe Scripture is clear enough on this for people to separate over pre-trib. vs. post-trib. position. From my studies into this I believe the post-trib. position best represents Jesus’ teaching in Matt. and Luke and the apostle’s teaching in the epistles. The pre-trib. position forces a strange dispensational element on Jesus’ teaching and turns the clear teaching of the epistles that there is only one parousia (revealing or coming) of Jesus into there being two parousias. For the sake of getting this letter finished, I will here quote four of John Piper’s arguments for post-tribulationalism from a 2 or 3 page paper on the second coming.

“1. The word for “meeting” the Lord in the air in 1 Thessalonians 4:17 (apantesin) is used in two other places in the New Testament: Matthew 25:6 and Acts 28:15. In both places it refers to a meeting in which people go out to meet a dignitary and then accompany him in to the place from which they came out. One of these, Matthew 25:6, is even a parable of the second coming and so a strong argument that this is the sense of the meeting here in 1 Thess. 4:17-that we rise to meet the Lord in the air and then welcome him to earth as king.

2. The wording of 2 Thessalonians 1:5-7, when read carefully, shows that Paul expects to attain rest from suffering at the same time and in the same event that he expects the unbelievers to receive punishment, namely, at the revelation of Jesus with mighty angels in flaming fire. This revelation is not the pre-tribulational rapture but the glorious second coming. Which means that Paul did not expect an event at which he and the other believers would be given rest seven years before the glorious appearing of Christ in flaming fire. Vengeance on unbelievers and rest for the persecuted church come on the same day in the same event.

3. The wording of 2 Thessalonians 2:1-2 suggests that the “assembling to meet him” is the same as “the day of the Lord” about which they are confused. But the assembling is the “rapture” and “the day of the Lord” is the glorious second coming. They appear to be one event. Supporting this is the reference to “gathering” the elect in Matthew 24:31. Here there is a gathering (same word) but it is clearly a post-tribulational context. So there is no need to see the gathering and the day of the Lord in 2 Thessalonians as separate events.

4. If Paul were a pre-tribulationist why did he not simply say in 2 Thessalonians 2:3 that the Christians don’t need to worry that the day of the Lord is here because all the Christians are still here? Instead he talks just the way you would expect a post-tribulational person to do. He tells them that they should not think that the day of the Lord is here because the apostasy and the man of lawlessness have not appeared. (See the AM sermon of 8-30-87 for more on this one.)…”

I also am leaning toward covenant theology, as I see that much of the dispensational position is forced and does not adequately deal with how the NT authors and characters clearly saw the church age as a fulfillment of OT prophecy (which dispensationalists say applies only to the tribulation/millennium). Also Rom. 4:13-16 teaches specifically that the promise given to Abraham concerning his inheriting the land is given to all the spiritual seed of Abraham not to his physical seed. This alone negates the central premise of dispensationalism. Gal. 3 also clearly teaches that the blessings promised to Abraham are given to those who are Christ’s–Abraham’s spiritual seed. I challenge you to see how the NT authors used OT quotes. It is so very apparent that they saw the current reality of the church age as embodied in God’s chosen people in OT times. They see the NT era as a fulfillment of the promises made to Israel. Over and over again in the NT we see the physical promises (and by no means were the promises only physical there are many clearly spiritual promises given—part of the problem of dispensationalism is enforcing an unbiblical dichotomy between fleshly and spiritual realities) reinterpreted spiritually. Matthew clearly spiritualizes OT quotes to show that they really pointed to the Messiah coming to usher in a spiritual kingdom.

I also have been awakened to the fact that much of what fundamentalists separate over is not even clearly revealed in Scripture. Nowhere in Scripture does it say how much beat/rhythm in music is acceptable or not. Jewish music was much more peppy than the average fundamentalist’s music today. In fact, there is no Biblical basis for concluding that an emphasis of beat in music is inherently sensual. A sampling of music and dance from a diverse group of cultures clearly reveals that folk music which in no way is sensual is represented by many different styles unique to the different cultures. Fundamentalists, by and large have no problem tapping their foot when listening to marches or Western hillbilly/cowboy-type music—because they understand it as a separate genre of music not inherently evil. Yet fundamentalists refuse to accept any more modern styles of music, although once again they enjoy a more antiquated bluegrass-style country sound. What infuriates me most about the debate over music is the incredible Scripture-twisting lengths some people go to in order to have a Biblical reason to say some music forms are evil. The classic example in my mind is the twisting of the story of David ministering to Saul with his music to mean that the beat in music should be emphasized the least while the melody the most (an argument used by Frank Garlock in Music in the Balance). Another equally wrong attempt is made by comparing the heartbeat with the beat of music, and somehow then making the jump that Scripture supports this comparison (no beat=dead, erratic beat=sick, steady and measured beat=healthy). While most fundamentalists would decry someone lifting their hands in a church service or clapping, both of these actions are commanded in Scripture (cf. 1 Tim. 2:8, Ps. 47:1).

On a similar note, Dt. 22:5 is a matter of interpretation. Several valid interpretations exist (the Bible does not specifically say that pants are male clothing, for instance), and so one should not separate over a matter that is not clearly defined as unbiblical. There is considerable historical support for the understanding of the text as speaking to transvestism associated with the false worship and pagan idolatry of the Canaanites. Also, someone can legitimately accept the principle of gender distinction in clothing (which may be supported by Dt. 22:5 and seems clearly taught in 1 Cor. 11), and apply that by being careful to wear only modest, woman-like pants. In fact, culottes and skirts are often least likely to be modest in the situations they are worn (and at the lengths they are typically worn).

I have thoroughly thought through the KJV only issue (reading scores of books–thousands of pages worth of research) and am convinced of three things. First, that the KJV only movement is a relatively new movement started around the 1950’s, {although some scholars like Dean Burgon defended the KJV prior to this, their defense was categorically different than that of the KJV only movement, due to their views that the TR, and the KJV, had many errors and needed revision} which was originally based on a scientific/rationalistic defense–the many MSS outweigh the few, TR is as old as the “older” texts which support the modern versions, Church Fathers and other language versions support the TR against the Critical Text, etc.

Second, that later KJV only defenders started saying that the Bible’s teaching on preservation would require that the KJV only position be true Important to note, is that the position did not arise out of Bible believers desiring to defend the doctrine of preservation, but that KJV defenders reinterpreted the doctrine of preservation to help defend their KJV only views. The Bible does not teach that every letter and word of Scripture must be preserved or else the document cannot be considered Scripture and thus cannot be valid. In fact, the Scripture clearly teaches that for a time part of the revealed Scripture was not available and actually was lost–Josiah rediscovered it. A helpful article along these lines is William Comb’s article in the Detroit Baptist Theological Seminary Journal Fall 2000 on “The Preservation of the Bible”.

Third, that both the texts underlying the KJV (Masoretic Text & TR) and the KJV itself have errors. One or two examples of each kind of error are enough to prove my claim that the KJV is errant (although many more examples could be provided). Errors in the Masoretic Text: Example = Ps. 22:16, the MT has “like a lion my hands and my feet” whereas the KJV following the Vulgate, Septuagint, and all ancient versions (only 2 Hebrew MSS are known to contain the reading of the MT) have “pierced my hands and my feet”. (It is interesting to note that the KJV in 20 or more places goes with the marginal reading of the MT instead of its text reading.) Errors in the TR: Examples= Acts 9:6, the first half of the verse has no Greek support of any kind (although there is some support from other ancient language versions)–see Edward Hills Defending the KJV, pg. 201. Erasmus claimed to have copied it from the Latin Vulgate into the Greek New Testament (TR). (It is also interesting to note that in Acts 22 and 26 when Paul recounts what is recorded in Acts 9:6 this phrase is not repeated and a different phrase is mentioned both times as what Paul said in response to Jesus’ statement.) Rev. 16:5, the TR underlying the KJV has “which art, and wast, and shalt be” whereas all Greek MSS and other Greek Texts, all Latin and other ancient versions, and all church fathers’ quotes have “which art, and wast, the Holy One“. There is no support for this reading at all. Hills says it is a conjectural emendation that Beza made to the text–see DKJV, pg. 208. Errors in the KJV: Example = Is. 13:15, KJV has “every one that is joined unto them shall fall by the sword” whereas the Hebrew MT, Greek LXX, Latin Vulgate, and all other versions, quotes, etc. have “every one that is captured shall fall by the sword”. There is not one scrap of support for this reading. It is very possible that the KJV translators mistook one Hebrew letter for another, as that is the only difference between the words. In light of these errors and facts, I am not KJV only.

In fact, in studying this further, I now lean toward the critical text position. I challenge you to read One Bible Only? Examining the Exclusive Claims for the King James Bible edited by Roy Beacham and Kevin Bauder and published by Kregel. All the contributors are professors at Central Baptist Theological Seminary and thus understand the KJV only camp much better than most academicians. The book is fair and accurate in representing the views held by the more informed KJV-only (or TR-only) people, such as those teaching at Fairhaven and Bethel Baptist. However, the book is absolutely amazing—try to refute it! The following articles will be helpful. Perhaps the single best article to encompass all the arguments is Doug Kutilek’s critique of David Sorenson’s book Touch not the Unclean Thing. His history of the rise of KJV-onlyism is very informative. Links for two articles will follow here which prove that godly scholars before the influence of Wescott and Hort (and the finding of some of the papyri and early manuscripts discovered since the late 1800’s) came to the same conclusions which such findings added proof for see Turretin and Tregelles. Also here is one article, representative of the wealth of accurate information available that has been written by Dan Wallace that totally overturns the arguments for the superiority of the TR so parroted in the circles I came out of.

Briefly, I want to address a few remaining issues. First, multiple elder rule is clearly taught as opposed to single-pastor rule of churches. The closest thing to Biblical warrant for the belief in single-pastor rule is the implication drawn from the singular for bishop versus the plural for deacons in 1 Tim. 3. Any argument based on Rev. 2-3 has to first pre-assume that angels=pastors—an assumption not necessitated by the text. In contrast to such skimpy support is the clear teaching that churches had multiple elders (Acts 20:17, Philippians 1:1, and many others). Also Acts 14:23 and Titus 1:5 clearly teach that the NT intent was to have a plurality of elders in every church and town. Second, the local church only ecclesiology is patently forced and unnatural in many texts (the whole book of Ephesians, Gal. 1:13, and clearly Rom. 12:4-5 where Paul sees himself united to believers he has never met as part of the church of God—for which Christ died Acts 20:28). Local churches are very important, and every believer should be a part of one (Heb. 10:25) but there is a sense of a unified and universal church that the vast majority of thoroughly Christian scholars has believed in and clearly affirmed (Eph. 5:23 and 3:21). Third, there seems to be an overemphasis of separation in fundamentalism and a total neglect to follow the many Biblical examples and imperatives of unity/interdependency among churches. I believe that the tenor of the NTpositions/preferences Scripture indicates that we should separate over major doctrines, not minor .

This concludes my defense to you of my positions. I encourage you to have a Berean attitude. I also am glad for the many blessings I have received spiritually from my friendship with you. I hope we can maintain good ties and love one another as fellow believers truly as we should. Keep serving God and loving Him remembering all His benefits to us in Christ Jesus.

Your friend in Christ,

Bob Hayton

80 Responses to “My Story with a Critique of Fundamentalist Extremism and a Defense of my Positions”

  1. on December 7, 2005 at 7:31 pm Jeff Voegtlin

    Hi Bob, this looks like it will be a very interesting blog.

    Let me say first, that I respect your decisions, and can in some way understand your points of view.

    I am very happy to hear the news of your family and its growth especially spiritually.

    While not really wanting to get into arguments, I wonder if you would listen to some sermons I have preached (http://www.sermonaudio.com/search.asp?SpeakerOnly=true&currSection=sermonsspeaker&Keyword=Jeff^Voegtlin) and let me know if they are more of the typical fundamentalist type of sermon, or if you would think they are an attempt at biblical hermeneutics. I know you may not have time to listen to lots of sermons, but you did invite us to listen to other sermons in this post.

    I will say that I have read some of John Piper’s sermons and been helped by some of them.

    I know you admitted in your letter to the possibility of you being wrong about some things, so I ask (on behalf of fundamentalists that are not IFBx - at least I don’t think I’m extreme) for grace, you should know more about this than us. Please be gracious with us, someday we’ll come to know the truth also. And as we do, we’ll attempt to practice it in our churches.

    Personally, I’m not so stuck on being a fundamentalist as I am on following God’s Word as closely as possible in my personal life, my public life, and in my church.

    I look forward to reading your posts. I’ll probably add your blog to my outlook reader.

    I would also like to hear your thoughts on some of my randomness I have posted in my own blog — http://www.jeffvoegtlin.com/blogs/jdvblog.html

    Anyway, Am I the first to comment on your blog?


  2. on December 9, 2005 at 5:37 am Fundamentally Reformed

    Pastor Jeff (as I will always remember you),

    Thanks for the comments. And no, you are not the first to comment. You’re the second. I had a comment on my limited atonement post.

    Let me clarify, somewhat. I do tend to overstate things, and I fear my criticisms of fundamentalism might be more harsh than I intended. In making my point I tend to overstate it, I fear.

    There are many positive things about fundamentalists. I will always be thankful for the seriousness which was imparted to me at Fairhaven. There is an honest effort to please God among many fundamentalists. And there is a sincere faith in the Bible. These are certainly praiseworthy attributes. My criticisms are more directed toward certain misemphases or missing elements in fundamentalism which have great potential to obscure (in my opinion) certain great and important truths of Christianity.

    I feel that certain structures established by fundamentalism lend themselves to creating environments which foster a performance based value system. The way we relate to God is on how well we have performed. The way we relate to others in our camp is by how well we have performed. The way we view our self-worth is by how well we have performed. While it is important to obey and conform to God’s standards of holiness, such obedience and conformity does not constitute our acceptance with Him. Jesus’ blood and righteousness do.

    This then leads to an emphasis on conforming and being faithful to a set of do’s and don’t’s–which become taboos and rules of community, which by the way are unquestionable. Success is measured by faithfulness to this man-made list of rules and not to how much one has loved others and loved Christ and been changed by His Word.

    The large emphasis fundamentalism puts on authority does much to enforce the list and to squelch any independent questioning/research into the validity of the list. This is a big factor in why so much of fundamentalism is defined by personalities, rather than doctrines. No creeds or confessions join fundamentalists, rather personalities and allegiances do. I have found many exceptions to the rule, but by and large the movement is what it has been.

    It is these types of things which I feel obscure the vision of Christ that I want to focus my life on. I grant that there are many problems in other Evangelical circles, but one group’s problems does not negate the other’s. I have found that there are many conservative evangelicals who decry the problems of evangelicalism almost as much as fundamentalists do. And they have as deep a respect for God’s Word and desire for holiness. They also have a great passion for a close relationship with Christ (as many fundamentalists do). They may draw their lines of ecclesiastical separation differently than fundamentalists do, but that does not mean they spurn ecclesiastical separation.

    I truly am thankful for much that I have learned at Fairhaven and at Bethel Baptist in El Sobrante. I deeply respect the desire to be Biblically based in every area of life. I have not abandoned that focus, I trust.

    I also have always respected your teaching and preaching as demonstrating, by and large, a sincere attempt at biblical hermeneutics. I will try to listen to some of your sermons, and will probably enjoy them, too. I wish that the type of preaching you do would be more pervasive, widespread, and ultimately popular in the movement than it is. (Not to say that Biblical preaching is extrememly popular in all evangelical circles, either! But Biblical preaching is one of the primary factors in why so many people have begun attending our church in the last 5 years or so, here at Bethlehem).

    I have always respected you and have learned much from you during my time at Fairhaven. Please, feel free to keep up on my blog, and I will try to keep up on yours.

    May God Bless.


  3. on January 20, 2006 at 5:17 pm Anonymous

    http://www.metropolitantabernacle.org/Pages/HEDONISM.html


  4. on January 21, 2006 at 3:16 am Fundamentally Reformed

    The above link is discussed briefly at the end of the second comment of mine in the thread under this post.


  5. on February 24, 2006 at 6:51 am Fundamentally Reformed

    A friend of mine, Tom Ross, posted the entirety of his 26 page letter to me here in this comment thread, in mid January. To make it easier to read, I have formatted that letter and put it into its own post over at my auxiliary blog. You can see the letter here.

    I have also provided my letter which preceded this response from Tom, in a post which provides links to all the pieces of the ongoing discussion so far. That post can be reached by clicking on this link.

    Again, the reason I deleted the letter from Tom that was posted here, was to provide it with the original formatting, which was lost by posting it as a comment. I also moved the letter in order to make the comment section of this bulky post a little less daunting.


  6. on April 20, 2006 at 7:39 pm Fundamentally Reformed

    A comment was made here by Courtney Lewis which was off topic. I have deleted it as the same comment can be seen along with my response here.


  7. on May 22, 2006 at 10:12 am Dennis Clough

    Hi,

    I read your a good deal of your blog, and appreciate your honesty and seriousness regarding the Word and proper response to its teachings.

    I would suggest that you not think of your past experiences as wasted in any way. God leads us along and we all had to start somewhere! I must say that Oral Roberts, of all people, was the first person used of God in my life to experience the reality of Christ. Someone has said that a one-eyed man is king in a country of blind men. So thank you Oral, but I soon learned (and am still learning) there was much more to Christ than I was first presented with.

    It wasn’t too long after that, however, that a copy of The Sword of the Lord fell into my hands. I read John R. Rice’s Letter to a Modernist and thought I had died and gone to Heaven! I grew up in a liberal Methodist church that was pastored by two men (at different times). Both of these men were personable, highly educated and loved people. However, they were blind guides who knew little of the Bible and questioned even that. So the Sword taught me to look to the Word of God. Some of those great sermons were still on fire with a passion for Christ and the experience of His love!

    What’s so engaging about John Piper is his obvious hunger for God but truly, his passion is not unique. It really should be the commonuncommon experience of the least of us, don’t you think? I saw it in the greats of Fundamentalism, and still do. However, I also see the flaws. I will always be grateful to people God used and is till using in my life to help me understand the salvation so graciously extended to me.

    I am very much persuaded against Calvinism and was sorry to see you embrace what I consider a system rooted, deeply rooted, in error. You mentioned Vance but I’m not sure your read his excellent book, The Other Side of Calvinism. I hope you will!

    In the meantime, I will read John Piper’s book on the Five Points (aka TULIP).

    One quick point; Calvinism conflicts with the Bible both subtly and overtly, IMHO. One obvious contradiction to the truth of the Word is that every believer will always manifest fruit.So a true believer will persevere, even though he may have any number of periodical lapses. In the end, he will die with a smile on his face, congratulating himself on “holding on.” Thus he has not so much manifested his salvation as he has earned it by said persevering. Of course, I am exaggerating this teaching to make a point, but the truth is, many Christians go to Heaven with little or no fruit that can be seen by man.

    I have yet to see(perhaps you will be the first) a Calvinist deal with 1 Corinthians 11:30 which clearly reveals that MANY true Christians are weak, sickly, and even experience premature death because they don’t develop or mature!

    So much for the “perseverance of the saints” as a guarantee of eternal life! Better to trust the clear promise of John 5:24 that no believer will ever come into condemnation and that he already possess’eternal life.

    God bless you in your journey, Dennis Clough


  8. on May 22, 2006 at 2:11 pm Fundamentally Reformed

    Dennis,

    Thanks for your kind comments. You are welcome to disgree with Calvinism and add a dissenting view here anytime you like.

    As for your point about 1 Cor. 11:30, let me speak briefly. Being in sin is not necessarily the same thing as walking away from faith altogether. When Calvinists say Christians will persevere, they mean the latter. They do believe growth will evidence the true nature of a regenerated believer’s life. But we admit there are varying degrees of growth in believers and we also agree that Christians can be involved in deep sin. Someone may die and we may be left wondering if they were even saved truly or not–much like the example of Lot. Yet God makes the final judgment not us.

    We believe that all who have genuine faith will never walk away from that faith (apostasize) finally. And we believe that God works to cause true believers to persevere. It is God’s work that he started and continues, not merely our work. Yes, practically, Calvinists say we have a duty to persevere. But with Paul, as we persevere, we point to God’s grace as the enabling cause of our works. We depend on him, and seek to not boast in our own doing.

    You could read my “Once Saved, Always Saved?!?!” post for more of my view. I think perseverance is too often dismissed nonchallantly by nonCalvinists. The Bible has much to say about our need to persevere–but of course we can only do so by the free grace of God.


  9. on June 15, 2006 at 5:35 pm Aaron L. Turner

    Bob,

    I have read completely this post with great interest. It is amazing to me that your path so parallels mine. Not with the same institutions, but the same conclusions.

    Thank you for sharing your story. It has greatly encouraged me.

    Blessings,
    Aaron L. Turner


  10. on June 23, 2006 at 7:24 am Fundamentally Reformed

    Aaron,

    I have received many such testimonies like yours, and it makes me glad that I have shared my testimony in such a public way. I hope others become more willing to actually examine what they believe and why.

    God bless you and yours!

    Bob Hayton


  11. on July 2, 2006 at 5:10 pm Anonymous

    Hello,
    Great site! I went to a home church conference and met Steve Atkerson, author of “ekklesia” what a great and awesome guy.

    It seems that we share similar views. I am a musician, and I would be honored if you would check out my music. All of the music is free for download. Anyway, just thought that I’d share.

    Thanks,
    -Sean


  12. [...] Recently, Jeff Voegtlin (Vice President of Fairhaven Baptist College, and an assistant pastor at Fairhaven Baptist Church) posted a clarification on his blog as to his view regarding my departure from fundamentalism. He had made one of the first comments on my blog in response to “My Story and Critique of Fundamentalism”, and apparently someone read a little too much into that comment. An email exchange ensued to see what exactly Jeff’s take on my story really was. Jeff posted an edited version of that exchange (as well as linking to my story) to make it clear that he does not support my positions. [...]


  13. on August 24, 2006 at 3:32 pm dlz

    I came upon your website from a Sharperiron forum about blogs we read. It took me a couple of days to get through your whole critique (a parent of 2 - I’m sure you understand the lack of time to read) but I really enjoyed it. I have travelled a very similar path, blessed by God to have a few, dedicated teachers and pastors along the way to direct me back to Christ. Keep sharing your message, there are many who need to see that there is true Biblical Christianity outside of the legalism they have experienced in fundamentalism.


  14. on August 24, 2006 at 9:45 pm fundyreformed

    DLZ,

    Thanks for the encouragement, and for sticking it out and reading the whole thing!

    God bless,

    Bob Hayton


  15. on August 24, 2006 at 10:36 pm Joel

    Bob, I have been on a similar journey as yours. I’m not ready yet to let go of my old KJV, but I have fully embrace my Sovereign Lord. I would like to see a ministry get started that is targeted toward IFB’ers, that might help them make the move over to the Biblical Gospel. I will be in touch.


  16. on August 24, 2006 at 11:32 pm fundyreformed

    Glad to hear from you, Joel. It is difficult to envision a ministry aimed at IFB’ers. In many respects they are sincere and dedicated to Christ. They are not easily convinced to “switch” and they quickly take offense. I wish more became like me and you, and this blog is for that aim. But ultimately I am happy for the fact that many of them are faithfully serving Christ, even if they hold to some wrong and divisive views.

    God bless,

    Bob Hayton


  17. on October 15, 2006 at 12:57 am David Thatcher

    I can relate to your journey. I too have taken a similar journey. Over and above the doctrinal issues, is the issue of pride. It is the age old pride of man that is the scourge of IFBx folks. It is what lies behind hyper-separation, performance-based Christianity, backstabbing and fighting among IFBx churches, lack of Biblical exegesis, creation of camps around pseudo-Popes such as Hyles. Unfortunately my friend it is not limited to IFBx people. Our American Church culture, steeple and all, is a magnet for the prideful ambitions of men. In denominations/conventions it is not so much an issue for the layman because fellowship isn’t broken unless the church seperates from the denomination/convention. But even then, you still have a vested core group of people in each church that define the power dynamic and are in many cases untouchable. You brown-nose, follow, or lay low. It is an issue of accountability that exists predominantly because of a single-head hierarchial leadership model. However even in an multiple-equal elder situation you can have this happen if they are part of the same clique. This is perhaps why the NT says to set the people held in lower esteem as judges in the church. OMG I am getting too Biblical now aren’t I?
    I have yet to discover a church that places fidelity and commitment to accurate, exegetical Biblical teaching OVER its own existance. As an organization, today’s church creates a power vacuum which must always be filled no matter the cost. This is my experience. The brick wall past which you may not apply the Scripture any further is exactly where it challenges the power structure and dominance of the leadership and the core players.
    If your church seems to be an exception it is because you happen to be on the same page as the movers and shakers. When you grow past it then you better move on. No one likes an “upstart”.


  18. on October 16, 2006 at 7:30 am fundyreformed

    I can appreciate your comment David, but let us not be too pessimistic. The Bible is true and Jesus is on the throne. He promised His church would be triumphant and the gates of Hell could not prevail against it. Who are we to negatively assume that any and every church we could go to will have unGodly leadership?

    No church is perfect, but we all have Christ as our head and he is walking in the midst of the candlesticks (churches). There are some good fundamentalist churches, even.

    God wants us to be faithful and He has given us churches to help us. While my blog is pointing out errors in the doctrine and practice of some churches, it is trying to promote correct doctrine and correct practice, not a distrust of doctrine and no practice at all.

    I hope you find a good church and that you don’t just bail out on God totally. (I don’t know enough of you from your comments to tell anything, so forgive me if I am reading too much into your comments.)

    God bless you in Christ,

    Bob


  19. on October 18, 2006 at 1:26 pm Joshua C

    A Bible teacher in High School of mine who had been down a similar path as you describe used to always tell us that we were “in God’s School.” And that God’s school was the best School. Then he would go on to clarify that he was not speaking of the Mission Boarding School that we were attending but about the School we call the Christian life.

    Thank you for your transparency, I almost began to laugh when you made a comment that your friends would think your change flippant. You had just spent page after page describing how you had come to this point, it would be ridiculous to call the change flippant.

    I wonder about the whole debate about Calvinism and Armenianism, and wonder why God has to be placed in a Box over man derived issues. I am not attempting to attack your choice to follow whole-heartedly after Calvinism, since you have placed a lot of thought into your decision and come to the conclusion that you are at peace with. I wonder however and I don’t mean to sound relativistic when I say this but if God is transcendent over creation and the nature of God is unknowable to the mind of man how can we claim that the Bible strictly teaches predestination or conversely that man can apostatize. These in my mind seem to be doctrines of men that place our Sovereign God into a box that God does not place Himself into.(i.e. God can not sin, etc.) In saying this I am not denying that God has foreknowledge of sinners who will repent, this would be a denial of Gods omniscience. Or am I saying that I don’t believe man has a free will to choose, this would go against what I believe Scripture teaches about the openness of the Gospel for all who would believe. Yet, I know that not all will believe, and I believe that God knows who those who will believe are. God however in His sovereign will has provided for man to live out his life in whatsoever state he so chooses with the opportunity salvation and for the final Judgment at the end, before God who provided for Salvation despite man’s neglect of the provision. In the end even this brings Glory to God, which is in the end the final purpose of Creation from the beginning of Creation.

    I understand your concern about Fundamentalist philosophies providing a false security for believers entrenched in their pews. I too see this as a danger, and would refer these pew sitters to review Christ’s letters to the 7 Churches and particularly to the letters to the churches in Ephesus and Leodecia found in the Book of Revelation. Your point there reminds me of the statement in the book to the Philippians
    Philippians 2:12
    “Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always
    obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now
    much more in my absence, work out your own
    salvation with fear and trembling.”
    Salvation is not through the Church but through Christ. It is the responsibility of every believer to assure his own relationship with God not the church’s.

    Thank you again for your post, I know that it was not directed to me originally, I just happened upon it and enjoyed reading though it, although due to time constraints only made it half way through, and scanned the rest for content.


  20. on October 18, 2006 at 2:50 pm Brian Balzamo

    Hey,
    I think you should probably remember me, I am Brian Balzamo, Tom’s Brother. I think that To was in your wedding if I am not mistaken. I only went to school with you for one year and then I transferred to Ambassador Baptist college and graduated from there. I am at the present moment an assistant pastor in Michigan, but I will be returning the Lord willing to NJ Next summer to plant and pastor a church. I stumbled upon your blog and read through most of it. While I agree on some of your points, I don’t think it is necessary to go as far as you have. I too see the error and external facade of fundamentalism and I believe that it is hurting more people today than it is helping. I too have forsaken fundamentalism, but not clear Bible doctrine. It seems to me Bob, that you have forsaken fundamentalism for another “Locked in system of thought”. You critisize fundamentalism for being caught up in personalities and things such like, well ok now so are you. What do call John Piper and such like proponents of Calvinism and covenant theology? They are personalities, and with these personalities comes a circle, an association, and a rigid system of belief. It is no different than fundamentalism except for the fact that you are embracing false doctrines as a means of trying to be different from Fundamentalism. Bob, The true Gospel does include the Soveriegnty of God and that is true, but it also includes the free will of man!(and please don’t start telling me that everytime the word whosoever is used in Scripture it is referring to the elect because it is not). You cannot get around that. You can try to explain it away with greek and all your big words, but it is still there and you know it is there. Believe me I DO I DO understand your reason’s for leaving fundamentalism, I just don’t think you should leave doctrine. My wife and I have left the fundamentalist Baptist movement ourselves personally, but not clear Bible doctrine. We have left fundamentalism and not only fundamentalism but also we are not associating with a denominational name anymore, because of the external emphasis that is becoming and has become widespread. There are people that have never heard the name of Jesus Christ right here in our country and we are so busy debating theology that we are letting them go into eternity without telling them about our Lord. We will be starting a church which will NOT propagate a denomination or a doctrine taught by some popular man, but rather clear simple doctrine as Clearly seen in Scripture, not doctrinal books written by men. You have left a movement for another movement and in the process you allowed yourself over this long period of time to leave True Bible doctrine. You want to leave fundamentalism go ahead I’m with ya, but please don’t leave True doctrine.


  21. on October 19, 2006 at 12:32 pm Pitchford

    Brian,

    I’m sure I don’t have to speak in Bob’s defense, I know he can defend himself adequately; but notwithstanding, I thought I would make a quick comment on your misconception:

    I know Bob (and his theology) well enough to know that he would not at all deny that “whosoever will [whosoever of any of mankind] may come.” However, to say that, because whosoever will may come is necessarily to imply that some are indeed willing is not only an unsubstantiated leap in logic — it is also in contradiction to clear scriptures. Romans 3 says that not one single person seeks God. Christ, in John 6, says that no one is able to come to him, unless the Father enables him. If a person desires to come (will come), then he may. But no one freely desires, in his natural state. Hence, the very desire is the gift of God, and comes not of human willing, but of God’s grace (see John 1:13, for instance). In fact faith and repentance are explicitly said to be God’s gifts (e.g. Philippians 1:29, Acts 11:18, etc.).

    Whosoever will may come, but no one naturally will — the will of everyone is bound by sin. But when God, of his free grace, gives someone a new heart, that heart is indeed willing (see, for instance, Jeremiah 31:31-34). This is all God’s grace.

    I just wanted to speak up, since your post misrepresents Bob’s Calvinistic theology. There’s no benefit in dealing with a straw man, so I thought you might like truer version of Reformed soteriology to consider than the one you were arguing with.

    Blessings,
    Nathan


  22. on October 19, 2006 at 4:55 pm Joshua C

    Nathan you said:
    “Whosoever will may come, but no one naturally will — the will of everyone is bound by sin. But when God, of his free grace, gives someone a new heart, that heart is indeed willing (see, for instance, Jeremiah 31:31-34). This is all God’s grace.”

    This almost sounds like circular reasoning. The new heart given by Gods grace to the Believer takes place at salvation, not in order for salvation to take place. If they have already received a new heart before they will be saved, what purpose is there in becoming saved? Gods leading by the conviction of the Holy Spirit is what I believe Christ was talking about. Otherwise of what use is the Third person of the Godhead. Isn’t one of the functions of the Holy Spirit to convict sinners of their sin and to draw them to the place where they see their need for salvation?

    I will concede that my argument may be based upon a definition of terminology in the discussion of a new heart, so I will ask that you define your terms when you speak of a new heart. Unless there is a definition of terminology true discussion and understanding cannot take place. Obviously neither you nor I speak of the physical organ that pumps blood, but are you speaking of the spiritual change that takes place when a person is changed by the work of the Savior at Calvary, or are you speaking of a perceived need for change based on the conviction of sin.

    That being said, I think that you would agree that there is no need to make personal attacks upon a person for God’s leading in their life. I wouldn’t say based upon the main article here that the perception of God’s leading was based upon sinful motives or upon misguided selfish desires. Concepts of personal separation should be more in the line of separation from sin than separation from fellow believers. Otherwise I cannot conceive that there ever could be any possibility of fellowship, as everyone has different personal convictions about any number of issues. The argument could be made that even in the early church, even when the Apostles were alive, there may have been different views on scriptural matters. Obviously Paul addresses these differences in his epistles. Different churches had different problems. Paul wrote specific things to specific Churches. As they were inspired and are now recognized as Scripture good for all of the churches, they were original directed to specific churches. Christ through John also addressed these differences in the letters to the seven churches in Revelation. Each one of us needs to decide based on Scriptural principles, whom we should fellowship with and in which local church we should worship. Ultimately after all a person’s salvation is a matter between him and God, and not a matter between him and his pastor, or him and the congregation. His growth in the faith and his walk with the Lord however will hinge upon the environment in which he worships and those with whom he fellowships.


  23. on October 20, 2006 at 7:24 am fundyreformed

    Joshua C,

    Thanks for taking the time to read through most of this long post. I am glad it was a blessing to you.

    Regarding Calvinism, I have two other posts which seem to bear more directly on the points you and Brian brought up here (to which Nathan responded above). You are welcome to pursue further interaction on those posts, and of course to read them for my point of view. Basically, I agree that God is ultimately unknowable, but I believe that God has said more aobut these matters in His Word than you are aware of. Please read the posts, they should at least help you understand my point of view.

    They are: “‘Whosoever Will’ and Calvinism” and “Regeneration, Reception, and Faith”.

    Thanks for the interaction.

    God bless you richly in Christ Jesus,

    Bob Hayton


  24. on October 20, 2006 at 7:52 am fundyreformed

    Brian,

    Great to hear from you! I do remember you, and yes your brother Tom was in my wedding. How is he? Does he approve of your break with fundamentalism?

    I am encouraged that you seem very determined to stand for what is right, and that you also have been awakened to what is wrong with many elements of fundamentalism. And I do hope the best for you and your family, and I pray God your new church will be blessed and used by Him for much lasting good and the saving of many souls. I do mean this.

    However, I would like to address what you say here:

    “It seems to me Bob, that you have forsaken fundamentalism for another “Locked in system of thought”. You critisize fundamentalism for being caught up in personalities and things such like, well ok now so are you. What do call John Piper and such like proponents of Calvinism and covenant theology? They are personalities, and with these personalities comes a circle, an association, and a rigid system of belief. It is no different than fundamentalism except for the fact that you are embracing false doctrines as a means of trying to be different from Fundamentalism.”

    I think this statement reveals some misconceptions about Calvinism, and I would like to help clear that up if I may. And in doing so I need to compare Calvinism with fundamentalism since you have done so in your statement above.

    Fundamentalism is a fairly new development and has more to do with a culture than a creed. It is more about how you hold to different positions and how such positions affect your fellowship or lack thereof with others. It is rigid in that it only allows for fellowship with others who have the same strict beliefs about separation. It is personality driven in that doctrine is often downplayed and allegiance to competing personalities is encouraged.

    Calvinism, however, has much more historical heritage. It is the product of the Reformation. All of the Reformers could be termed Calvinists—they would agree with the doctrinal position of Calvinists today. Calvinism is a descriptive term not a movement started by one guy. Luther was a Calvinist long before Calvin came around. Calvinism relates to a doctrinal system best known by the so-called “Five points” of Calvinism. Many great confessional documents of historic denominations have upheld and defended the doctrinal underpinings of Calvinism. The Westminster Confession of Faith (Presbyterians), the Helvetic Confession (Reformed), The 1689 London Baptist Confession, The Canons of Dort, the 39 Articles of Faith (Church of England), and many other documents/confessions of various and different denominations within Protestantism embrace the basic doctrines of Calvinism.

    Also, the earliest Baptists and the vast majority of Baptists were Calvinistic all the way down to the 1900s. Charles Spurgeon, Jonathan Edwards, George Whitfield, Adoniram Judson, William Carey–these all were ardent Calvinists. So there is a tad bit more legitimacy to Calvinism than Fundamentalism and it is different.

    Now I agree that today Calvinism can be faddish because it is popular; and it can revolve around personalities like John Piper, John MacArthur, Albert Mohler, and the like. But these men do not demand allegiance or loyalty in any similar way to the leading personalities of fundamentalism.

    You describe Calvinism as a “locked in system of thought” and a “rigid system of belief”. This might show that you might think of Calvinists as extremists and elitists. Some people think of Calvinists as saying they alone are right and everyone else is wrong (well, really, who doesn’t think this way?). But more accurately, people think of Calvinists as those ready to burn their opponents at the stake, as people who nitpick with everyone else’s beliefs and have no fellowship with anyone but diehard Calvinists.

    Sadly, there are some Calvinist which deserve this description. But the vast majority of Calvinists, and the majority today are much more like Charles Spurgeon. They understand and believe in the doctrines of Calvinism, but they readily accept those who don’t as faithful and dearhearted fellow believers in Christ.

    You see, Calvinism is more of an explanation for what goes on behind the scenes in salvation. It is not something just made up from men’s minds, but it is strongly taught in many passages of Scripture. God goes out of his way to teach that both faith and repentance are gifts of God, but then he also requires men to repent and believe. How are we to explain that? We believe that you can’t just use this verse to negate the clear teaching of that other verse, but that all verses must fit together into a harmonious and unanimous single teaching of Christ.

    If you read the two posts I link to in the comment directly above this (toward the end) and if you also look at other comments on my blog on Calvinism, by clicking on the category link in the sidebar on my home page for “Reformed Theology”, you would learn that there is much in Scripture which seems to strongly support the key doctrines of Calvinism.

    But in all honesty, since I have believed in Calvinism, I have found myself more willing to hope the best about others. I am far less judgmental about others and their doctrines. I can see that God is at work in many more people than just me and my fellow Calvinists. He is producing fruit in the live of countless millions who do not understand or embrace Calvinism. And in so doing, God is just making it that much more clear that He is Sovereign and that He is building His church and he does not depend on any one theological system to do His work.

    Brian, it sounds like you don’t really understand Calvinism. I would strongly suggest you read this booklet (a very easy read, not too long) by John Piper on the Five Points of Calvinism. You should read it first to at least understand our position from our own defense of it, before you so strongly (and it almost seemed “viciously” ;) denounce Calvinism as a clear departure from pure doctrine.

    Whether or not you ever embrace Calvinism, I am happy for the evidences of grace in your life. I am glad God is working a love for Christ and for His Church in your life. I really do wish you and yours abundant blessings in Jesus Christ.

    Your brother in Christ,

    Bob Hayton


  25. on October 20, 2006 at 9:59 am Pitchford

    Joshua C.,

    Just a quick answer to your question: I see the “new heart” (i.e. the regenerating work of the Holy Spirit) as causally or logically (but not temporally) preceding faith and repentance, which causally precede justification. I see this order indicated in several passages; perhaps John 3 is the most notable, where Christ informs Nicodemus that, unless a man is born again (regenerated, given a “heart of flesh” [cf. Ezekiel 37], etc.) not only can he not enter the kingdom of heaven, he cannot even see the kingdom of heaven (i.e. he doesn’t have the “spiritual eyes” which believingly embrace gospel truths). I John 5:1 might be the simplest didactic statement of the same truth: “Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ has been born of God…” That’s all I’ll say, since Bob pointed out some more appropriate posts to deal with the issue — but I just thought, since you had a specific question, I would answer it first.

    By the way, I appreciate your take on dealing with doctrinal differences. I hope I didn’t come across as “mak[ing] personal attacks upon a person for God’s leading in their life”. I certainly didn’t intend my statements that way. I rejoice to see the Spirit’s guidance in the lives of those who comment here, and I hope I may sometimes help others in the pursuit of right doctrine, even as I am helped by others.

    Blessings in Christ,
    Nathan


  26. on October 20, 2006 at 5:46 pm Joshua C

    Nathan,

    I am sorry that I didn’t clerify better, I wasn’t saying that you were making pesonal attacks, I was speaking more of Brians comment below.
    “It is no different than fundamentalism except
    for the fact that you are embracing false
    doctrines as a means of trying to be different
    from Fundamentalism.”

    In reading Bob’s last post he speaks of about how people getting caught up in calvanism to an extreem. I have to agree with him that if taken to the extreem calvanism can be very divisive issue, but probably not any less divisive than extreme separatist Indi-fundi movement. I believe that we need to approach these things in moderation with a heart of love toward fellow believers, otherwise we (Calvanists or Fundamentalists) become as the pharasies of Christs day or the Judiasers in the early church. In so doing we turn the grace of God into a religion which requires something other than repentance from the sinner in order to gain acceptance with God. (i.e. follow our creed or be cast out)


  27. on October 20, 2006 at 5:54 pm Joshua C

    Bob,

    You surmise correctly that I am not an expert in calvanism. I would say that I am far more calvanistic now that I was, just a few years back when I was vehimently anti-calvanistic and viewed it as a distorted view of salvation.(which isn’t to say that I was Armenian. I never denied eternal security) Anyway thank you for the link to your other posts/threads which deal with this issue more.


  28. on October 25, 2006 at 2:41 pm Brian Balzamo

    Hey Bob,
    My brother does agree with me, and he is doing very well. He and his wife Rosa reside in Pennsylvania and they have a one year old boy. I apologize for coming across as being “viscious” in my last reply. I do appreciate you taking the time to reply and explaining some things for me. I am not an expert on these things and so I appreciate the attempts to try to educate me. However, there are some clear principles that are being ignored. I also appreciate the comments of the other fellows who responded. I don’t have the time right now to write much but I will say a few things very briefly.
    Spurgeon and some of those historical figures that were mentioned, if alive today would not call themselves Calvinists because of its widespread extremes today. I have writings of Spurgeon where there is no indication that he was a calvinist in sense that you fellows would say he was. When he referred to himself as calvinist he was not adhering to beliefs that all of you fellows hold to. This is clear in his writings. Its also clear in the memoirs and writings of some of the other historical figure who were mentioned. In fact they probably would not call themselves fundamentalists either because of its widespread extremes as well. Calvinism in its NAME may have alot of history and age to it, but that does not mean that its teachings are that old. Calvinism’s teachings are not as old as you may think. The name may be, but its teachings are relatively new. Calvinism today is not the calvinism of Spugeon’s time. Also Spurgeon was outright against many of Calvin’s Teachings and denounced them in some of his writings stating that most of Calvin’s teachings were derived from Augustine, a founder of the Roman Catholic church.
    I have a list before me of personally gathered beliefs and statements made by modern proponents of Calvinism that would make Spurgeon roll over in his grave. Somewhere along the line, it had its beginning just like fundamentalism. Old or new, they are both systems of thought. If you are a fundamentalist you think and do things according to that system, if a Calvinist you think and do things as CalvinIST. Many things about Fundamentalism when weighed against Scripture are wrong and the same is true about Calvinism. I believe there is Scriptural reason for not holding to either. I’ve studied more of Calvinism and fundamentalism than you may have gathered, and I’m not going to sit here try to display and debate and show off everything I know about these trends in theology and that is exactly what they are. (Both systems of thought are characterized by people who try to show off how much they know.) Not because I can’t, I just don’t want to. Its a waste of precious time. Most of the time these discussions are not edifying, and do more harm than good. I hope you would agree with that. Its as bad as the “local church” issue that used to be discussed and debated all the time at Bible college.


  29. on October 26, 2006 at 9:28 am Joshua C

    I discussed this issue with my dad at length the other day, and he seemed to have the same response about Calvinism that Brian had, that many of it proponents use the teachings of Calvin as an excuse to avoid evangelism. “If they will be saved, why do they need a preacher to preach to them the word of God?” With this system of Calvinism, I believe that Calvin himself would roll over in his grave. It is nothing more than Christian elitism. As you can understand this attitude and twisting of scripture is an affront to my dad’s entire ministry, he has been on the mission field for over 25 years trying to take the Gospel to people who have never heard. I think you can understand why his defenses might go up when someone mentions that they are strictly Calvinist.

    Brian, it looks like you may have looked over the pamphlet that was linked to by Bob, but I am not sure that you actually read through it thoroughly. It seems that the Calvinism that Bob is talking about is a much more evangelism focused (which is clearly what the Bible teaches, “Go Ye into All the World and preach ._._. Et-al) those who will be saved, will be saved indeed once they hear the gospel. I think you would agree that no one would have the opportunity be saved if they don’t receive the gospel, and that the very fact that the gospel is preached in its self is by the grace of God preached to those who have not heard.

    Because of the reactions created in response to unbiblical Calvinistic extremism, there is often a visceral response to the claim that one is a Calvinist. Like my dad told me however, when it comes right down to it, Biblical orthodoxy is basically more Calvinistic than Armenian. I think the Calvinism espoused in the booklet that Bob is talking about by Piper (at least in my understanding) is more of the nuts and bolts of Man’s Sin, God’s Grace, Faith, and Salvation, than the dogma of elitism that is taught by the more extremist elements of modern Calvanism.


  30. on October 26, 2006 at 10:00 pm Tom Balzamo

    Bob,
    I’ve already read so much on this blog and I don’t know where to begin! My brother just called to tell me to drop you a line. It really is a pleasure to hear about your little ones! They bring such joy, don’t they?! I can’t remember if I ever actually saw you anytime after you were married. I hope all is well.
    Let me say right off that I am not here to badger or attack you, we’ll leave that to Courtney. Also, I do have an opinion in regard to calvanism. I am not the type to display hatred over differences of opinion, i.e. “I can’t talk to you, you believe…” or “Don’t come near me. You go to …” Should we ever cross path again, I’m likely to greet you cordially and would love to talk much.

    You asked Brian if I am in agreement with him on his view of fundementalism. He affirmed that I am. I thought it would be better if you heard it directly from me as well. You may not know this since you were already gone at the time, but I left our infamous college/church in June of 2003 and joined a small Baptist church in South Haven, namely Emmanuel Baptist. You probably know where that is. I had made the decision to leave in light of many things. It seemed as if a lot of people there knew me, and since I lived very close, I became a sort of “Rescue mission” for many young men from that would get “excommunicated.” Sometimes late at night I’d get a knock at my door from some distrought guy who just got the boot and needed a place to stay. This happened more than once. Often times parents were encouraged to kick their child out of the house because of something they did wrong. This was at the advice of the church leadership! This was a red flag. The pastor had too much control over the family. I even met husbands and wives who were pitted against eachother in arguments where a woman placed the preacher in a more important leadership position than her husband. This type of pastoring was not the “example” type pastoring that Peter refers to. This was oppressive, dictatorial leadership.
    Yes, I have very strong opinions about the place that left us both with lots of memories, but even after I left, I stopped in once in a while, just to say “Hi, I’m still around. I haven’t gone off the deep end just because I left your church. I’m still doing right.” Bob, I tell ya, this baffled a lot of people!! When I would visit, many people were afraid to talk to me as if I were shunned. They weren’t sure if I was “Faculty approved” for fraternizing. One time, in town, I ran into an older couple who were, previously, always friendly to me. One of them said to me, “When you fall flat on your face, you’ll be back.” So much for brotherly love!
    Well, I’m sure that I don’t need to read you the whole “Rap sheet” about fundementalism. You already know. But, I was just tired of being asked, “Did you talk to staff?”, when I wasn’t sure what the will of God was. I was tired of seeing Godly friends shoved aside and replaced with personalities who could produce external success. We know about personalities, don’t we Bob. We were quintet buddies! We traveled with the ensemble! We know about being chosen for priveledges and recognition based on personality. We were recruiters! And having been on the quintet, we know that choice isn’t always made based on vocal quality. Remember “Amazing Love”?!
    Now before I sound too upset, I want to clarify that there are message boards out there for people who hate your Alma Mater. I have not been a part of them. I viewed them once, but found that they are places for bitter people.
    I hold no bitterness for fundementalists nor do I hold bitterness toward you for your choice of calvanism. A man once told me that often times, when people leave fundemenalism, they want so far away from it that they swing to an opposite extreme. Bob, I agree with your take on fundementalism. The doctine of fundementalists is often not the issue, but rather the methods and attitudes that are propogated. Truth be known, I’m still a member of a Bible believing Baptist church. I give no special credence to Baptists but to the Bible believing aspect of my church, and the Lord knows that if a non-baptist church down the road that holds closer to Scripture opens its doors, I’m going there! Bob, we will probably never be members of the same church due to the conclusions we’ve both made about the Scriptures, but you are my brother. We both serve the same Lord, and will see the same Heaven. The shame is those who do not serve the same Lord and will not see the same Heaven as a result of what we either do or do not do as believers.
    Bob, I’m glad to have caught up with you. I trust that the song Jerry and I sang at your wedding is still a very real part of your life. God bless you.
    Tom


  31. on October 26, 2006 at 10:18 pm Pitchford

    Tom,

    Although I don’t know you, I was blesed by your comment. The graciousness that comes from knowing Christ was apparent. Keep pursuing him and following hard after the scriptures, and I will look forward to meeting you some day, whether or not in this world.

    In Christ,
    Nathan


  32. on October 27, 2006 at 6:51 am fundyreformed

    Brian,

    Thanks for responding. I really am not out to convert you per se. I am just trying to defend myself and my belief system from false charges.

    We most likely will have to agree to disagree on this point. I want you to know that I am happy for you and do not think less of you for not subscribing to Calvinism. I understand it is an issue which is hard to discuss and can be complicated. Also there are misconceptions which abound about those on both sides of this issue.

    Regarding Spurgeon, I think you have been led astray.  I don’t know what beliefs you are referring to that Spurgeon would differ with me and other modern Calvinists on, but it is clear that Spurgeon was a full five point Calvinist.  Check out, for example, his “Defense of Calvinism”.  Also check out this post, where I link to a Spurgeon sermon which shows he also believed that regeneration must precede faith.  This post  (by a blogging friend of mine), also highlights some beliefs Spurgeon would share with modern Calvinists today.  Spurgeon has been misunderstood, and in fundamentalist circles he has been conscientiously edited!  This post and this post provide examples of times the Sword of the Lord has deliberately edited out Spurgeon’s Calvinism.

    There are Calvinistic beliefs out there that I strongly disagree with.  They are actually beliefs of hyper Calvinists, however.  Unfortunately, nonCalvinists tend to confuse historic, mainstream Calvinism with hyper Calvinism, and give the name Calvinism to any of these extreme beliefs.  Phil Johnson has an excellent post about hyper Calvinism which outlines five different beliefs that they have which the majority of Calvinists reject.  I too reject these five extreme beliefs.  The modern Calvinism so widespread today–the modern Calvinism I know of–also rejects these extreme beliefs.  Spurgeon argued against those beliefs, and modern Calvinists today do as well.

    The church I am a part of is a very missions minded church.  They have sent literally hundreds of missionaries out across the world, many to unreached people groups, in the last 25 years.  And yet the church is solidly Calvinistic.  Our pastor John Piper has written an excellent work on missions entitled Let the Nations Be Glad.  Our church has also grown by leaps and bounds in the past five years, God has definitely been blessing us.

    Again I want to stress that I am happy for you and believe I can truly fellowship with you even if we disagree on this point.  I pray God blesses your ministry and helps both of us to always maintain a Berean attitude, being willing to search the Scriptures with regard to each and every teaching we encounter.  May God guide us into all truth through His Spirit, and may he foster a